I received this e-mail recently:
I wanted to ask you what core curriculum you are using for Molly this year for 3rd grade specifically for Math and ELA. Also, my other child will be starting a bit of Preschool-Kindergarten work. Any recommendations for that age level for learning letters, number etc.? There is SO much out there for, which is a great thing. I am finding it overwhelming at this point, though, to narrow it down. Your recommendations in the past were great. Thanks for your continued help and support.
–Feeling a Bit Overwhelmed
I haven’t written about our daily schedule or curriculum since this glimpse of our homeschooling days well over a year ago. This has been, in part, because, although we do use workbooks, I feel that relying on them too much gives up a major advantage of homeschooling – flexibility. I also don’t trust completion (or lack of completion) of a certain level of a curriculum as the last word on competency. Because I’m there, every day, working together with them, both strengths and weaknesses are easier to detect. We use one standardized test a year to double check, but don’t use our school’s (multiple) annual standardized tests. I don’t think having the kids jump through too many curriculum hoops is useful.
Maybe, if I hadn’t spent +/- 20 years in school myself, and if I were braver, I wouldn’t make my kids do workbooks at all. Alas, I’m just not ready to give up my reliance on a curriculum.
As August is a great time to get organized, even for homeschoolers, I thought I’d share my response with you, in case you find it helpful too.
Here is Part 1 of my response, which covers Math.
Hey, Overwhelmed! Thanks for writing. I can feel your pain. Besides sugar, my main vice right now is that I buy too many books! I cannot help it. Homeschooling, as a market, has exploded and all the information and resources are daunting, especially as a lot of advertising plays on parents’ fears of “missing something”. It can be very hard to parse out what matters!
If I could offer a word of advice before I tell you what we use, it would be to stick with whatever you pick for at least 3 months. It will take you time to get comfortable with the resource. Give yourself and your kids a chance. I hear a lot from parents who change books because they have a bad day or week. Trust me. No matter how awesome your homeschooling life is, we all have bad days and bad weeks. Talk to me in February and I’ll tell you that some of us even have bad months!
Molly is technically in 3rd grade and Joseph in 1st, but their workbooks vary by grade level. Most of these books go in order so, if you are not starting at the beginning, you may need to try more than one until you find the right fit for your child.
1. After trying several other curricula like Everyday Math, which our school uses, we committed to Singapore Math (Standards Edition) two years ago. We chose them because, in our opinion, they balance critical thinking with rote memorization of concepts very well. The books have great visuals and offer lots of games and activities to help reinforce the lessons, so they have worked for Molly, who likes to read the book, as well as Joseph, who likes to see the math come to life with items he can touch. Plus, the company offers great customer support.
We buy our books directly from Singapore Math. You can find placement tests here. I usually buy the textbook and workbook, and the Home Instructor’s Guide. The textbook and workbook are repetitive so Molly uses one or the other, but not both. And I save the other for Joseph, which does save us money. I have no desire to follow the Common Core but if you do, I just noticed they sell a Common Core aligned edition as well.
One of our main goals for the kids is for them to be self-motivated learners. Although I remind Molly and Joseph that it is time to “work”, I usually let them decide how many pages to do. This lets them set their own goals, which they always meet or exceed. They usually set higher goals for themselves than I would. We usually do Singapore Math 2-3 times per week, depending on what else is going on.
2. We also use Daily Math Practice from Evan-Moor. This reinforces what they are doing in Singapore Math, although I use it more to build discipline because I expect them to do the book 5 days a week. Each day only has 5 questions so it only takes a few minutes.
As you know, not every kid learns the same way and even the same kid needs to look at something in different ways to really understand it. So, in addition to workbooks we use the following:
Some of our favorite Apps are: Sushi Monster, Hungry Fish, Mathmateer, Creature Math, Yahtzee. Factor Samurai, Dragonbox Algebra 5+, Dragonbox Algebra 12+, Math vs. Zombies, Counting Money, Pizza Fractions and BrainPop. Molly had a hard time sitting and memorizing her multiplication tables. She finally did it with the Multiplication + app.
Some of our favorite games are: War with a plain old deck of cards, Sum Swamp, Math Dice, Pizza Fraction Fun, Rush Hour, Hoppers, and Chess. We also play often with a cash register. All three of my kids love it!
Donald in Mathmagic Land, LeapFrog Math Circus, and more recently The Story of Math, are our favorites. We also watch a lot of Ted-ed, including most of these. Although we mostly just watch videos of our choosing, you can find a whole curriculum through Khan Academy here.
The kids take piano lessons. Not only does music sound good because of its mathematical patterns, but there’s evidence that music lessons may boost IQ and grades. There is no question that playing an instrument benefits your brain. And I love to hear them play!
MATH IS EVERYWHERE
Here are some other ways to add math to your world:
- For fun Molly really loves books like Art Fraud Detective: Spot the Difference, Solve the Crime!, Detective Club and Orbiting with Logic. They are not just for math, but as deductive reasoning is so important to math, I am putting them here. If you ask me, what they teach – – logical thinking – – is more important than any single subject you can buy a book for today.
- Sign up for Bedtime Math. If you do, you’ll get a prompt delivered to your inbox every day with a math problem you can do with the kids at the table, in the car, or on a walk to get ice cream! Find more information here.
- Baking! It is one of my favorites ways to teach math. It is 100% how my kids learned fractions (so far).
- Fields Trips. Remember to get on mailing lists for museums, performances, lectures, homeschool enrichment programs, and anything else your community might have to offer. Join Facebook groups in your area or nationally. I belong to groups where I live, where I don’t live, and several states in between! I always “Like” educational institutions because they share a lot of great information. Because I don’t really have a homeschool community where we live, I find these groups invaluable!
- Let your kids start paying for things themselves. Having to do mental math while someone watched her was both exciting and a big challenge for Molly.
I really could go on and on, especially because this post only covers about 1/10 of all the places my kids learn math. I hope it helps, though. And to help you realize that there is no one correct way to do it.
Remember, one of the great benefits of homeschooling is the relationship you have with your kids. No education is perfect, no matter where your child gets it. So, forget trying to “do it all” and enjoy today!